Feature: Why She Fakes It

If you read the title and thought she hasn’t pulled this on you, I wouldn’t be so sure. Many women are not able to frequently achieve orgasm through normal intercourse according to Gert Holstege of the University of Groningen. "When you want to make love to a woman, you must give her the feeling of being protected”. He suggests some women are unable to achieve full orgasm because they are mentally distracted by fear and other emotions. There are women who can only reach orgasms through clitoral stimulation like oral sex, some forms of foreplay and masturbation.

Scientific studies show some women are simply unable to achieve orgasm at all. A devastating 10-15% according to Dr. Phil will never achieve orgasm. Another 30% cannot orgasm through intercourse alone. Lets stop reading and have a moment of silence for these unfortunate ladies that will never feel the toe-popping, mind-blowing, eye-rolling sensation that takes over your body at the moment of climax, however, they continue to put on a big production trying to make sure you do not feel insecure. So not only is she so kind as to put out but she also pretends you just blew her mind. It is hard to fault her for acting when it is all for you!

That brings us to our first reason some women fake it. They simply can’t orgasm and don’t want you to feel like you have failed. If the thought of a woman faking it with you pisses you off then you are looking at it all wrong. Not only does she not even have a chance at winning the prize she continues entering the contest just so you can keep winning. This woman needs to be commended for putting out all the hard work without ultimate satisfaction in return. She probably does still enjoy it, but not like you and I.

You can try different techniques and through trial & error you can find out what she responds to. It helps a lot if you start things slowly and build up the momentum. You should be able to feel her vagina pulsating and moist before you even begin to fondle that area. A good start can be key. Don’t be so eager to get things finished.

A lady appreciates quality foreplay. What if your lady wants to skip the foreplay and jump right into it? Caution ahead, she could be trying to race you to the finish line. Now for our second reason women fake it, just to get it over with. She might have had a hard day at work, came home exhausted only to find you in an unusually frisky mood for a Monday night. To avoid having you hump her leg and whine all night she decides to head to the bedroom and just handle it real quick. I’d like to think you are all such great guys that you wouldn’t image calling the job done until you were both satisfied.

However, If her head and heart are not in it then it can be a challenge to reach climax so she prepares for the compromise. She waits for your breathing que and when the timing is just right she cums at the exact same time. You both lay there and pant as she thanks you for a job well done. This one may piss you off a little cause there is no shame her letting you know that she’s just not in the mood and you should be thankful she was willing to make sure you are content. We call this, faking one for the team.

Now for the worst faker of them all, the reward him for doing it wrong girl. If I knew who these girls were I would kick their ass because they are not doing anyone a favor. If your moves are tired you have a right to know.

I dated a guy who thought he wrote the road map to traveling down south, thanks to his last GF who was surely a faker, I had to burst his bubble. “I never had any complaints before” was his response. He thought I was the one with the problem when he didn’t even know where the clitoris was. By having the uncomfortable talk with him I was able to retrain and enjoy. Guys, all ladies are unique and have different preferences in the bedroom so never pass down a chance to learn what she likes. Give the lady what she wants and her body will respond naturally.